in response to Inspiration... Thank you so much for the help. I will look into these sites now.
I just got a letter today - now my house has gone into foreclosure :( He has a court order to make these payments but decided it was not important I guess. I have NO place to go, I have pets which limits my possibilities too. Does anyone know if the judge can make him catch the payments up? There are several things he is not paying or doing that were listed on our temp orders - such as medical! We go to court next month again, I'd kind of like to know just what I can expect.
I know, it seems that when I find help for one thing he creates another problem. I just wish I could somehow find a job!!!! I never thought I would be in this place in my life, if I knew I would have done so many things different - like go to college!!!
Again THANK you for your help, I appreciate people like you who are willing to share knowledge with those who need help. You are a blessing!